How to get laid
Event information according to the organizer's description:
Asking for what you want is sexy.
So, how do you get laid? How do you get intimate with someone? Maybe you’re curious to explore something new, but feel shy and unsure if intimate workshops are really for you. Maybe you’re actively dating, but your experiences don’t quite match your expectations. Or maybe you want to get more confident in speaking your desires, expressing vulnerability, and navigating boundaries with trust and clarity.
No matter your situation, it all comes down to the same thing: Communication and vulnerability. Asking for what you want makes you vulnerable. Vulnerability takes courage. Vulnerability inspires mindful communication. Mindful communication is key to consent. And consent is key to intimacy — and to fulfilling your wildest desires!
What will happen during this workshop?
This workshop focuses on communication, consent theory & practice, followed by sensual explorations and a guided play-space. It‘s a great preparation for our Spielwiese-Temple or any other kind of sex-positive events, but also a way to get better at asking what you want, in any kind of dating situation. It‘s designed for beginners and for anyone who wants to improve their communication around intimate encounters.
In the first part, we will explore different resources and tools related to consent and communication around intimate encounters:
- Topics to discuss during a first date
- How to feel safe at a play party or in a temple setting
- Tools to communicate about turn-ons, boundaries, and sexual health with partners
The second part is practical: some exercises will be verbal, others will involve touch that may become sensual.
- Practice talking about sexual health or sharing desires
- Hands-on sensual exploration about how you want to receive touch
In the third part the workshop concludes with a held play-space: a free-flow experience with several stations, inspired by the Wheel of Consent®*. This is a practical exploration of everything covered so far, with a chance to maybe get laid…
So, will I get laid?
The workshop ends with a play-space, and things might get juicy… or not. To be honest: No one can predict if you’ll find a match or get laid during this workshop.
Do I have to get laid? Do I have to touch anyone?
Practice is a big part of this workshop, but maybe your practice is to listen to your inner voice and say “No”. Of course, you don’t have to do anything that doesn’t feel right for you. The goal of this workshop is to provide communication tools and create a safer space for practice and experience. It’s a (maybe first?) step towards conscious sexuality. You’re more likely to form a connection in the play-space if you don’t set your expectations too high. If you’re looking for a specific body type or a very particular experience, this might not be the right place for you.
Who is it for?
If you’re new to sex positivity or want to expand your communication skills around sexuality, this workshop is for you. The goal is to provide both knowledge and communication tools, along with a playful experience. Please note: We do not gender-balance the group. You are expected to interact with people of all genders. Of course, mutual consent always applies, but if you can’t imagine giving or receiving touch from someone of the same gender, this workshop may not be for you.
Info:
- Date & Time: 25.07.26 14:00 - Arrival 14:30 - 20:30 - Journey 21:00 - Departure
- Where: Fokus – Seminarzentrum, 1070 Vienna.
- Price: Supporter Ticket 120€ (plus €2 booking fee), Standard Ticket €90,- (plus €2 booking fee), Fair ticket €50 (available upon request).
We hold a limited number of discounted spots for those who need a little financial breathing room. Write us at play@tillshirka.com to request one.
Dress Code:
For the first & second part: Casual clothing, from comfy to sexy. For the final part: Feel free to go bold, especially if you want to get laid..;)
For all parts: The most important thing is that you feel comfortable! Bring thick socks or indoor shoes if you tend to get cold feet. Outdoor shoes stay outside. Snacks: The workshop is quite long, so we’ll take a break — bring a snack for yourself, and maybe a little extra to share with others. Water bottles and cups with a lid are welcome in the space. We provide tea.